PATNA: Soni (name changed), like her friends, had dreamt of a prince as her man and a happy married life with him. She was on cloud nine when she in May 2004 tied the knot with Pradeep Biswas, chosen by her father as Mr Right for her.
Pradeep worked as a sales manager in a Kolkata firm, and everything was fine for a few months. The other day, however, Soni got the shock of her life when her father-in-law sought to get physically intimate with her. She complained to her husband, but he cared a damn. "I failed to improve things on my own and returned to my father's home along with my little daughter," she said. To Soni's horror, her father simply expressed his inability to support her and the child. "My parents virtually forced me to go back to my in-laws' place," she said as tears welled up in her eyes.
Her in-laws refused to take her in. The two females were literally on road for days till Soni approached Helpline Patna, an initiative of the state's Women Development Corporation to help women in distress. Soni has since filed a divorce petition. The Helpline, meanwhile, has made her pensioner father pay her Rs 1,000 every month.
There are many Sonis in Bihar. According to a survey conducted recently by the Union health and family affairs ministry, Bihar reported the highest number of cases of violence against married women. Nearly 50% married women suffer physical violence, 19% sexual violence, 2% emotional violence and 59% experience both physical and sexual violence.
Ironically, women from urban areas face more violence than those from rural areas. According to the survey, 62.2% of the surveyed women were subjected to the trauma of domestic violence in urban areas compared to 58.5% women in rural areas.
The Domestic Violence Act, 2005 has not proved a deterrent. This becomes evident from the Helpline figures that indicate a rising trend: A total of 159 cases of domestic violence were reported to the Helpline till November 2010.
This figure was 174 in 2009, 143 in 2008, 138 in 2007, 124 in 2006 and only 84 in 2005.
The same is the case with dowry harassment incidents. As against 63 cases of dowry-related harassment till November 2010, the Helpline received 67 complaints in 2009, 39 in 2008, 47 in 2007 and only 13 complaints in 2006.
Bihar State Human Rights Commission chairman Justice S N Jha attributes the pathetic state of affairs to lack of awareness among women about their rights. The rights panel boss, at the same time, is also worried about misuse of pro-women laws. "We should organize seminars, street corner plays and other such events to spread awareness," he said at a state-level consultation workshop on `UNiTE To End Violence Against Women', organized by Equity Foundation, and supported by Action Aid, here on Friday.
A police officer Chandra Shekhar Vidyarthi also expressed concern over growing domestic violence. "Altogether 74 cases have been filed in the court of Patna chief judicial magistrate in 2010. This figure was 51 in 2009, 54 in 2008 and only 23 in 2007," Vidyarthi, currently a DSP with BMP, said.
The cop felt that laws could be of limited help. "For things to improve, people's mindset has to be changed," he said as he blamed the patriarchal nature of our society for such ills.
Earlier, Equity Foundation director Nina Srivastava welcomed the delegates. Foundation chairperson Renu Ranjan proposed a vote of thanks.
Alok K N Mishra can be contacted at 9234629956.
PATNA: Maths wizard Anand Kumar on Saturday said the reason why people find mathematics a boring subject is that they fail to understand the `hows and whys' of mathematical calculations and equations.
The founder of Super 30, a group coaching students free for IIT-JEE examination with 100% success rate for the past several years, was speaking at a book launch programme at the Patna Book Fair here.
"Maths plays an important role in our life right from childhood. Once a student starts understanding it, maths becomes very interesting," he said.
Anand was launching a maths book, `Make Mathematics Your Best Friend'. "The book comprehensively simplifies complexities of various terms of maths," he said. The book has been authored by Rajesh Kumar Thakur and published by Prabhat Prakashan.
A senior official of Prabhat Prakashan said, "We will publish a book on Super 30 and its founder, Anand Kumar. The book is likely to be out by the end of next year."
Earlier, two more books -`Swadeshi Ki Sanskriti' and `Bhir Me Khoya Hua Samaj'- written by Manohar Shyam Joshi were released at the fair.
Noted filmmaker Prakash Jha is likely to visit the book fair on Sunday. He will give away awards to young achievers in the fields of journalism, literature and theatre.
Surendra Pratap Patrakarita Puraskar will go to photo-journalist Amrit Jai Kishan. Hare Prakash Upadhyay will be given Vidyapati Sahitya Puraskar for literature and Bijendra Kumar Tak will be awarded Bhikhari Thakur Rangkarma Puraskar for theatre.
A series of cultural events were also organised on the ninth day of the book fair. The day started with Nimbus International organizing a cultural programme in `Siesta-Fiesta'. Two seminars on different career choices were attended by a large number of school and college students. A public discussion `Parisamvad' was also organised.
A programme on poetry, `Unka Kavya Meri Vaani', saw the participation of many poets. In a public discussion programme, experts from different fields discussed the new image of Bihar and its future prospects. A quiz competition and a discussion on different books in `Bookworm' programme were also held.
Alok K N Mishra is a Times of India journalist. He can be contacted at 9234629956.