PATNA: Four years ago, when the self-proclaimed unit in-charge of a polio eradication wing promised Seema (name changed) a job and asked her to accompany him to the district collectorate, the Muzaffarpur girl trusted him and did his bidding. Little did she know she would end up not as a polio drop administration agent but as a sex worker.
The self-styled government babu - his name was elusive to Seema as well - took her to Bohatola in Sitamarhi, an infamous red light area, and forced her into the flesh trade. Seema, a matriculate, is now 18, and knows no other world than this.
"Seema comes from a poor background and her family members could not afford litigation. Today, Bohatola is her home and she is disconnected from any person known to her parents," said Jahara Khatun, a representative of sex workers from the area.
Khatun told TOI Seema's story on the sidelines of a two-day state-level workshop on the welfare of sex workers, organized by the Mahila Development Center (MDC), which began on Tuesday. The programme was inaugurated by MDC director Paramhans Prasad Singh, Child's Rights Protection Commission (CRPC) chairperson Nisha Jha and other guests.
There are many girls like Seema across the state who are being lured with promises of jobs and forced into the flesh trade. " Life is hell for every girl who has got trapped in this trade. The lives of women in Chaturbhuj Sthan - a red light area in Muzaffarpur - are especially hellish," said Shabana Begum, a sex workers' representative from the area.
She elaborated on her comment and said everyone looks down upon the sex worker from Chaturbhuj Sthan and its adjoining areas. "No one respects us. Rickshaw-pullers demand we produce the fare even before allowing us to get onto their rickshaws. Some sex workers have cheated them earlier and made off without paying the fare, because of which they do not trust us," Shabana added.
"Once you are into the flesh trade, it' better to remain in it. No one will give you respect outside," said a sex workers' representative attending the workshop, not wanting to be named.
Ranju Begum, another representative, recounted what happened to a girl who managed to escape from the clutches of pimps. "Once I found an underage girl crying for help and stopped her and asked what was wrong. She said she had escaped from the clutches of some men who were forcing her into the flesh trade," said Ranju.
But worse fate awaited the poor girl - her family members refused to accept her because she was no longer 'pure. "She went through severe mental torture at home before she was finally married off by her parents," added Ranju.
Minki Khatoon, a representative from another red light area, complained of severe discrimination by civil society against sex workers and their children. "Several sex workers have complained to me that school teachers refuse to give admission to their children," Khatoon told TOI. The discrimination runs deep down that police raid red light areas looking for suspects after every incident of dacoity in town. They think the touts and pimps in red light areas are miscreants as well, she added.
All the representatives attending the workshop stressed upon the need for serious government intervention to save girls from being forced to become sex workers and to stop the flesh trade that is on in full swing in Sitamarhi, Saharsa, Purnia and other districts.
"Most of the women involved in this trade want to give it up but cannot do so as there is no alternative way for them to earn their living," said MDC director Singh. Dozens of social representatives from across the state, including NGOs working for the welfare of such vulnerable groups, are participating in the convention.
CRPC chairperson Nisha Jha assured all possible help for the welfare of sex workers' children. "We will make sure all government child welfare programmes reach these children," Jha said, asking the representatives to submit a detailed survey report on such children.
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The self-styled government babu - his name was elusive to Seema as well - took her to Bohatola in Sitamarhi, an infamous red light area, and forced her into the flesh trade. Seema, a matriculate, is now 18, and knows no other world than this.
"Seema comes from a poor background and her family members could not afford litigation. Today, Bohatola is her home and she is disconnected from any person known to her parents," said Jahara Khatun, a representative of sex workers from the area.
Khatun told TOI Seema's story on the sidelines of a two-day state-level workshop on the welfare of sex workers, organized by the Mahila Development Center (MDC), which began on Tuesday. The programme was inaugurated by MDC director Paramhans Prasad Singh, Child's Rights Protection Commission (CRPC) chairperson Nisha Jha and other guests.
There are many girls like Seema across the state who are being lured with promises of jobs and forced into the flesh trade. " Life is hell for every girl who has got trapped in this trade. The lives of women in Chaturbhuj Sthan - a red light area in Muzaffarpur - are especially hellish," said Shabana Begum, a sex workers' representative from the area.
She elaborated on her comment and said everyone looks down upon the sex worker from Chaturbhuj Sthan and its adjoining areas. "No one respects us. Rickshaw-pullers demand we produce the fare even before allowing us to get onto their rickshaws. Some sex workers have cheated them earlier and made off without paying the fare, because of which they do not trust us," Shabana added.
"Once you are into the flesh trade, it' better to remain in it. No one will give you respect outside," said a sex workers' representative attending the workshop, not wanting to be named.
Ranju Begum, another representative, recounted what happened to a girl who managed to escape from the clutches of pimps. "Once I found an underage girl crying for help and stopped her and asked what was wrong. She said she had escaped from the clutches of some men who were forcing her into the flesh trade," said Ranju.
But worse fate awaited the poor girl - her family members refused to accept her because she was no longer 'pure. "She went through severe mental torture at home before she was finally married off by her parents," added Ranju.
Minki Khatoon, a representative from another red light area, complained of severe discrimination by civil society against sex workers and their children. "Several sex workers have complained to me that school teachers refuse to give admission to their children," Khatoon told TOI. The discrimination runs deep down that police raid red light areas looking for suspects after every incident of dacoity in town. They think the touts and pimps in red light areas are miscreants as well, she added.
All the representatives attending the workshop stressed upon the need for serious government intervention to save girls from being forced to become sex workers and to stop the flesh trade that is on in full swing in Sitamarhi, Saharsa, Purnia and other districts.
"Most of the women involved in this trade want to give it up but cannot do so as there is no alternative way for them to earn their living," said MDC director Singh. Dozens of social representatives from across the state, including NGOs working for the welfare of such vulnerable groups, are participating in the convention.
CRPC chairperson Nisha Jha assured all possible help for the welfare of sex workers' children. "We will make sure all government child welfare programmes reach these children," Jha said, asking the representatives to submit a detailed survey report on such children.
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